Sacrifices that pay off...

We all have to make decisions in life. Some are easy, such as what we wear or eat. Others are a little more complex. Decisions and sacrifices are the same thing when it comes to a relationship. You decide to get involved with someone, you decide to get married, and you decide to make that marriage work. All the while you are both making sacrifices along the way. You may look at yourself and not recognize parts of who you are anymore, and that's okay. It's also perfectly normal to wonder if you are even the same person anymore. Many times, the answer is no. Relationships change you. That's part of the deal. If you are not ready for that sacrifice, then I suggest you stay single. However, you may find that you like the person you become even better.

Before I met Doug, I was a totally different person. I was in my own world which evolved around me. My life now is much different. The important thing is to remember the essence of who you are and what is important to YOU. For instance, I take a lot of time for myself. I have always liked my alone time. I have also maintained my sense of humor and my outgoing personality. These are the things about myself I would never sacrifice for anyone else.

So, in summary...know whats important to you. Because what isn't important, will definitely change. Embrace the change, because only good can come from loving without fear. I have my husband to thank for teaching me that!